This reasoning is plausible, but pretty sure that was an excuse. Your Hesitation is probably not justified, rather, is that this man is her best friend – and never has something happened that you were forced to admit it. Now, with the Götti request such an event occurred: they Say Yes, you commit yourself for the Rest of your life – to the child, but also the parents. You shrink back, however, against this, especially in front of the Latter, you need to say to be consistent, no, what – but then – just as consistently a ” no ” to their friendship.
The Rag that comes to you out of this Dilemma is certainly going easily to the mental state of the partner is fixed, in fact it is due to the fact that someone you are standing near, is with a woman that makes his life a living hell, and nothing will change. Your friend is there, you are repulsed, not his partner. You can start with this people today, nothing more.
It is very ugly, so what to determine, but ultimately it doesn’t matter why you want someone still in his life. A relationship that gives just cause for complaint, you must listen to as a third-person constantly, is a pretty good reason. Sometimes you have to say and also nothing at all more, because of the Similarities that once led to the friendship, are present. It’s just important, this is but one question: How close do I want to be this person? If the spontaneous answer is “very close”, then they can be easily Götti. You are not that close, is””, then you should under no circumstances do this – but frankly your reasons for this. The one is each other guilty.
