“why don’t you Write something about the relationship of cabin fever in Corona-times,” asked me yesterday, a GQ-readers in Instagram. He love his girlfriend, but he would go to the 24/7-get-together in the apartment now belonging to the substance.
“What is bothering you exactly?”, I asked him. His Answer: “Everything.”
A difficult case, but, I bet, a currently widely used. The domestic quarantine, strikes many already on the mind. Existence of fears, concern for the loved one, day in, day out the same routine. And as if that were not enough, we are doomed, now, to the forced togetherness.
With “you” I mean the way you, not me. As a Single I could shuffle all day long in your pajamas from bed to Sofa and back again and my oldest clothes to wear, if I wanted to. I don’t want to, however, I put me well, even in a Home Office. Of course I’m wearing in quarantine, no clothes, not even a pair of Jeans. This cuddly Hoodies, track pants, or my new Nike leggings – “Berlin day and night”, but make it cute. What I want to say: I can do what I want.
Nobody complains about my Outfits, with its cooking my Bikini arts would like to speak to crash-diet or with me about the current Corona location, while to me after a NAP is. Indeed, direct human contact is missing me, but it is in my nature as an Introvert. I love it, me days alone einzuigeln.
But what is with you? You are caught with honey at home and feel gradually exhausted, overwhelmed? Would prefer to be alone? Fantasize about it sometimes, the lock of the door-to-door exchange, while your partner buys new Pasta? Then I would like to say first that these thoughts are okay, and not a betrayal to your relationship. So it’s not a crash in the home-prison, however, here are a few tips from me to you. (Read also: how Tinder works in the times of Corona)
tip 1: Talk about the Situation
If you ask me, is not to be communicated any relationship, the feelings and needs openly, at some point, is doomed to Failure. Right now, it is important to talk to each other. For example, the fact that you may need in your Home Office is your peace of mind, and while you are not the common children, keep the fun.
Or the fact that you currently lack the energy to facetimen with the mother-in-law. You want to quarantine Sex? Or just anything, just please no traffic want to because you are busy with other things? What it is, just say it. (Also read: phone sex – the rules for the hot pleasure)
tip 2: The thing with Sex
you Can still have passion for each other, if you see yourself for days, maybe even weeks, continuously? Of course you can, but it depends a) on the infatuation level and b) the sexual tension. Both a romantic as well as a physical connection, they probably at least once a day on top of each other and make a Corona-Baby.
man Is annoyed, but now only from each other, it becomes difficult. I advise in this case to give it some spice. You Sesto, yet again. The you can also from the kitchen to the bedroom.
follow your loved one in the morning in the shower. Grab a bottle of red wine and play after you have emptied, drunk truth or dare. Important the sluggish Routine to break, I think.
tip 3: Take time for yourself
Yes, you can – and must – also in double-quarantine a break. But you should communicate your need for Alone time to your partner, see point 1. You run in the morning round alone around the Block, take a deep breath. You go alone to the supermarket. Close the bathroom door behind him. Set up your Home Office in an Extra room and you also close the door.
don’t you Work on the Sofa with the Notebook on the lap while her friend looks next to it is the repetition of the “celebrities under the palm trees”. The advantage of a work room, also a sporadic: you can watch finally porn. And masturbate. (Also read: Big Penis? You do not have to note in the Sex,)
tip 4: Speaking of Masturbating
Now I know how your friend is like that, whether you reject your porn consumption or rejects. Both can be hot. You on the other hand is (it’s not supposed to be people who condemn self-satisfaction and/or enjoyment of adult Content in relationships), you need to be veeery quiet. Not a Peep, when the MILF and her step-cousin shows in the third degree, how your Breasts feel.
is your partner, however, understanding and in the best case, self-curious, just leave the door, while you just … Oh, you know.
tip 5: Be forgiving
your partner is not different than you. Also, you will be frustrated and maybe even on some days, the plague on the neck of your choice. So don’t be too strict with each other. Take your Beloved in your Arm, cuddling together on the Couch, cooking something. Pasta you have enough in the house.
Mimi Sex columnist for GQ, and GQ.de is Erhardt. learn more about the author.
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