men who are not able to control your orgasm is good, often try to distract yourself or numb somehow. For some, this strategy helps for the First even. Their Use is usually limited, and it also has some disadvantages. With the muted sensation and the muted awareness of sexual indulgence weakens often.
Reacting to the early ejaculation, by you dampen your sensation ability to get in first, instead of you. Because the better you know your arousal, the better you can control it. Let the self-satisfaction of your arousal to rise, and then very deliberately and patiently re-flatten. Learn what the different touches and ideas lead to a High, and exercise to calm you through breathing and movement, pleasure and presence.
Ponder also, what exactly is the goal of a beautiful sexuality. To make a lot of positions and at the same time to come, may sound desirable. Because these things are aimed at, but rather on performance than on pleasure, you can bring Stress in your sexuality.
Exercises to make your arousal, consciously come and go. The positions that are of interest to you, very slowly and explored without having an orgasm should be the goal. So your sexuality is versatile, and relaxed.
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