“I could feel that she chose to stand by my side and tried to be there as much as possible. I have set the price – that she would help me get through it all.”
the Words come from Anders Ravn, who was participating in Tuesday’s edition of ‘Luksusfælden’. The woman he talks about is his mother.
In the program, it looks bleak for the 25-year-old nordjyde, there with a debt of nearly 400,000 crowns have lost track. Nor did his mother, Maibritt, believe completely that he can turn things around. But she has to believe in him, saith the ‘Luksusfælden’-expert Carsten Linnemann in the program.
“I think he has use for, to the people who are around him, think on him. The greatest service you can do Anders, is to say: ‘you Know what, my boy? I believe you can it here.'”
As you know, managed it experts to direct the thistedboen on the right path, and along the way was his mother constantly at his side. Something that has meant a lot to Anders Ravn, who says she also subsequently supported him.
“There have been periods of time since the filming, where it has seen tightly, but so has my mother helped me and said: ‘You must do such and such’.”
Anders Ravn and his mother has not always been so close, and as it is also mentioned in the programme was the participant’s teenage years, influenced by the fact that his parents drank and sometimes fought.
“It was not fun to sit on the sidelines at the time. I think it has done that I have closed because I have been afraid to do something wrong and end off in everything,” he says and adds that today goes well with the parents.
He does not know about the previous experiences have had direct consequences for his economy, but he acknowledges that it is one of the reasons why he has been so konfliktsky, which you also find in the ‘Luksusfælden’, where he must pull themselves together in order to call the ex-wife and find a afbetalingsløsning on their joint debt.
In the day of the closing he is no longer so much of, he tells. At least not physically. He is starting to spend significantly fewer hours in front of the computer screen, and he also comes out more.
Among other things, he started to see his mother far more often, and he says that they help each other when they can. And on the question of whether their relationship has benefited from his participation in the program, he replies:
“I will not answer on her behalf, but I feel we have become closer since.”
as regards the economy, it also goes brilliant for Anders Ravn. He is no longer employed by an employment agency, but is instead passed up in the hours at the slaughterhouse where he works.
“It is fine to adhere to the budget, and I actually have money in profits each month. Them I save up and save, for it becomes necessary.”
all in All, the young nordjyde pleased that he chose to ask for help from the ‘Luksusfældens’ experts.
“I’m almost happy about their help. The I had use for, and they have put my life on the right track.”
