In tough times, which, of course, is the current pandemic, people often became to sex. How can affect coronavirus, with the accompanying anxiety, a drop in income and self-isolation on a person’s sex life, “MK” said practicing psychologist Alexey Lysenko, specializing in psychological reasons for sexual problems.
– people with thin, movable, vulnerable psyche is quite possible sexual dysfunction. Any kind of anxiety have a negative impact on libido. In humans and in normal conditions without a bogey in a threat of the coronavirus, there are different concerns about their sexual competence, their appearance, etc. and when a person starts worrying, it affects his ability to receive pleasure, to aroused, to reach orgasm. Therefore, people who are prone to such a reaction to a stressful situation, the disorder, of course, will.
Possible and the second option. Problems can occur in those families which appeared not so long ago and for some strong passion, the so-called “love chemistry”. In a situation when people were alone, they began to show the pitfalls in their natures, when sexual attraction is not so strong, there may be different conflicts. On home soil for any of them. And sex is designed so that if you have any problems in the relationship, it will somehow go to the sexual relationship. This is especially true of women if there is no trust, if there is resentment, it can reduce the pleasure of sexual intercourse to zero.
– Can be such that men will have problems with potency due to experiences related to loss of income, job?
– It depends on the sexual Constitution. The stability of an erection and the need for orgasms is different for everyone. The scatter is very large. Someone needs once a month, someone two times daily. If a person has a weak sexual Constitution, then such a stressful situation like a job loss etc. can cause libido cease to show themselves. And where the Constitution is above average, these men does not stop. They will, of course, to worry about, but will not lose no erection, no desire. Here still plays a role age. Than older people, the weaker the hormonal activity.
Now the most difficult situation for those who are in the period of hypersexuality: it is teenagers at the age of 15-18-20 years. They are so crazy that there are two instincts: self-preservation and the sexual instinct. And in this case the sexual instinct will win. Guys can hardly resist, they will take risks, engage in real sexual contact. With girls easier. They have serious fears, it will be much easier to refrain and hearthmother that new contacts can be dangerous.
– What is especially in the sexual sphere in a pandemic?
– There is one rather serious aspect. What is now an era of zithromaxwhat. Everything associated with the figure of porn sites, virtual relationship, virtual sex industry. Now all this will develop. Because the virtual sexual contact carries a real risk of becoming infected. Such contacts, when there is a virtual partner can be very stimulating, and satisfying, and so on. Because the main sexual organ is the brain. And here is a great scope for the imagination, for imaginary things.
But there are serious dangers. When it comes to porn sites, where the stimulation is very different from what happens in a real sexual interaction. You can change dozens of pictures to skip, speed up, view, that is, a person can thus obtain a very strong stimulation. And in real sex with a familiar partner, by and large, a month, a year is the same, it’s not very exciting. But the point is that if a man went to the, especially the young, which other experience is small, it produces a kind of stereotype. He’s getting the kind of stimulation. And when he is with a regular partner, then it begins to affect his erections, libido. And then you need some serious therapy in order for a person to help from this trap to get out. Here are tips some people, of course, this will resort, but it is desirable that it was occasionally so this relationship is not so much developed.
